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Speed Dating Q & A’s
Mixers and Parties Q & A’s
General Event Q & A’s
Dating Service Q & A’s
Member Q & A’s
Forum Q & A’s

Speed Dating Q & A’s

What can I expect at a speed dating event?

Please try to arrive on time and get ready for a fun filled evening! There will be a 15-30 minute sign-in period. The sign-in period gives you the opportunity to unwind and grab a drink, mix and mingle.

• Time to start - you will be seated across from one of the many people that you will be meeting. Every 3-6 minutes (depending on the amount of dates) a bell will sound, take a few seconds to indicate yes or no on your match card and move to the next person. This continues until half-time.


• Half-time - Stretch, get a drink; this is a great opportunity to talk further with someone you may be interested in.


• Second half starts.


• After you have met with everyone at the event, you’ll hand in your match card...you can stay and mingle afterwards.
  
  You’ll receive your matches 1-3 days after the event (a match occurs when both parties check off "yes" for each other). Matches include a persons' first name and email address. If you don’t receive your matches, please give us a call, we may have the wrong email address for you or spam filters are blocking our IP server.

What sort of questions should I ask the people that I’m meeting?

Ask questions that will allow you to get to know someone in a very short period of time.  What is important to you?  Some typical questions are:

1. What do you do for a living?
2. What are some of your hobbies?
3. What city do you live in?
4. What do you do on weekends?
5. What are the things you value?
6. What are you passionate about?
7. Musical interests...and the list goes on and on.

Tell a joke if that’s what you normally do!  Conversation tends to be very casual and may be totally different with each new person you meet. You may not be interested in someone romantically, but in order to have the most possible fun at an event, we ask that you approach each conversation with an open mind. You can learn some interesting things from people and who knows, you may meet a future friend or business contact.   Check out our Speed dating Tips.

Will food and drink be provided at the Speed dating event?

Single in the City will provide munchies during your half-time break. A cash bar is always available at restaurant and bar locations

What do I need to bring to the event?

Please bring your printed registration receipt with you.  All registered guests will be on a guest list at the door.

What should I not talk about at a Single in the City event?

We want your experience to be fun, comfortable and safe therefore, we ask that you please refrain from the following:
- Asking for contact information including phone #, address, last name, etc.
- Asking for another date
- Sexually explicit questions or threatening innuendos

Can I pay at the event?

Registration and payment is required before the event to ensure that our numbers are fairly equal. We accept Visa, MasterCard, Money order or Certified Cheque (must be received in the office before the event takes place), Register by phone or online through our secure online registration system. If you have not registered, please feel free to take your chances and show up at an event. If someone does not show up, you may be able to take their spot.

What if there are unequal numbers of men and women?

We will not run a speed dating event with highly skewed numbers.  It is common to be off by 1-3 men or women.  Sometimes people do not show up at an event which can lead to uneven numbers. The event will still run and be just as fun and successful!

When I registered, I gave out some personal information. Will this be given to my matches?

We do not give any personal information out to matches. Match information includes first name, last initial and email address only. The email address used will be the one printed by you on the signed event waiver. If we are unable to contact you with the email address on the waiver, we will use the email addres provided by you upon registration. Phone number can be given as an alternative if consented.

How many people will I date?

Each event is different.  An event can run with a minimum of 10 dates and a maximum of 25 dates depending on the event.

How long does it run?

Speed dating events generally last about 2 - 3 hours.

When do I get my matches?

Matches are sent via email 1-3 days following an event.  If you do not receive an email with your matches after 3 days, please call us at 1-866-740-7482 (SITC).

What do I wear to a Speed Dating Event?

The dress code at most of our events is upscale casual.   We recommend you put some effort into your appearance and dress to impress. No hats or runners allowed.

What is the "sign up with a friend deal"? 

The “sign up with a friend deal” is randomly posted on individual events. It is offered to registrants that sign up with one or more friends and will feature a discount per person.  Some events have a reduced cost for men only or women only.  Please note, the sign up for two deal is NOT a two for one deal (unless indicated).  The cost is still per person. 

What is the cancellation policy?

Cancellations must be made 5 business days prior to the day of the speed dating event in order to receive a refund or credit.

What if I don’t get any matches do I get a free event?

Single in the City does not guarantee you will have any mutual matches however, if you attend a speed date and do not select yes for anyone on your match card, you will receive another speed dating event for free! The "no picks" free speed dating event only applies with the following conditions:
1.If the first event was paid for
2.It must be used within 3 months from the date of the original event.
3.You must have participated in the full event and handed in a complete match card with no "Yes's" marked.

How do I redeem my "free" Speed Dating event?

Once you have handed in your "no picks" match card. You will receive an email from SITC (within 48-72 hours) stating that you have a "free" speed dating event on file and how to redeem it. If you think you are owed a free event, but did not receive this email please call us at 1-866-740-7482. To book your "free" speed dating event you can email us via our Contact Us page and/or phone 1-866-740-7482 to register. When booking the event (either by email or phone) you must have received verification of your booking from an SITC staff member to confirm your "free event" registration. The same booking and cancellation policies apply when using your "free" speed dating event. If you book a spot for an event using your free speed date and cancel less than 5 business days prior you will lose the free event.

Mixers and Parties Q & A’s

What can I expect at a Lock and Key party?

The Lock and Key Party is an exciting ice-breaker! Men get keys and women get locks; each key fits several locks and each time a lock is opened, both people get tickets to enter into a raffle for prizes. They then get new locks and keys with which to go out and meet more people.  The more you play, the more prize tickets you get and the better chance you have at winning a prize.  Of course…the main reason to participate is to mix and mingle.

What can I expect at a Dance or Mixer?

A dance or mixer usually includes DJ and Dancing, appetizers, cash bar, and some sort of interactive mixer game in the beggining to get everyone mingling. Some parties, dances and mixers have special themes and may have or not have some of the items mentioned above. Check each party listing for details of the event.

Do we receive matches at these events?

No…it’s up to you to approach, flirt away and find the nerve to ask for a number or email.

Will food and drink be provided at the parties?

Most parties will have complimentary appetizers and a cash bar, however each event is different. Be sure to check what is included with the event you are attending.

Can I pay at the event?

Most mixers, parties and dances have an option to buy tickets at the door. 

What if there are unequal numbers of men and women?

We do not guarantee equal numbers of men to women or vice versa at our mixers, parties and dances.  We try to keep the male to female ratio as equal as possible.

What do I wear to a Mixer or Party?

The dress code at most of our events is upscale casual.   We recommend you put some effort into your appearance and dress to impress. No hats or runners allowed.

General Q & A’s

What kind of people come out to your events?

We target urban professionals from different cities.  If you are single, busy and looking for a safer, more interesting way to meet people our events may be for you.  If you come to our events with a positive attitude and the desire to meet new and interesting people, you will have a great time!  Take a look at our picture gallery for a better idea of the people that attend Single in the City events.

What are the ages for the events?

Our events generally target single men and women between the ages of 21- 55.  Each event will have a specific age range listed.  We do not have as many events for the 50+ age group as they are more challenging to fill. Check our events calendar periodically for events in your age range.

What if I am out of the age range?

We give or take 1-4 years leeway on the age range listed for each event.  It is up to you to make the decision to attend. If you are still not sure, give us a call and we can help you out.

How much does an event cost?

Each event or activity has a different price; please check the event details for price.

What happens if an event does not fill?

If an event does not fill, we will postpone it and transfer your reservation.  If an event is cancelled by us, you will have the option of a credit towards any future event or a full refund.

If I cancel can I get a refund?

There are no refunds or credits on mixers/parties or special event registrations. Speed dating events require 5 business days notice for refund or credit. 

How do I cancel?

The best way to cancel for an event is to send an email using our Contact Us form AND leave a message at 1-866-740-7482 to ensure your cancellation is received.

If I don’t have a credit card or debit card, how can I pay?

Most events must be booked in advance, some events you may be able to pay at the door (this will be stated under each individual event).  Another option would be to mail in payment.  If you register early enough you can send a money order or certified cheque to the address listed on our contact us page.  If you are planning to register using a money order or certified cheque, please call and speak to one of our representative's first to ensure there are tickets left and so we know to be expecting your order. If you are sending payment by regular mail, please be sure to include the following:  Name (first and last), Email address, Ph#, Age, Gender, City and the event you are registering for.

Is it safe to pay with my credit card over the internet?

We have a secure online registration system that will process your credit card. If you feel uncomfortable using your credit card over the internet, we can take your reservation over the phone; however it may take longer for you to register by phone as it could take 1-2 business days to respond to your call.  To register by phone please call 1-866-740-SITC. If you are registering by phone, please try to call at least a week prior to the event of your choice to avoid it being sold out. Phone messages left do not reserve tickets, you must speak with a representative and give payment before a ticket will be held for you. For faster registration you should book online.

How do I know I am registered?

When you register with a credit card online, a receipt will be sent to your email. You will then receive an email reminder the evening prior or morning of the event, reminding you that you are registred and confirming the date, start time and location. Please call us if you do not get this reminder email, we may have the wrong information for you.

Dating Service Q & A’s

What is the $99 registration fee for?
The $99 registration fee is paid by all participants that enroll in our Dating Service. This fee ensures that you are serious about participating. It takes a lot of time and effort for the SITC Matchmakers to process your file and meet for the interview. SITC wants to make sure that all registered clients feel genuinely about the program.

Do I get my $99 registration fee back?
The $99 registration fee is non-refundable. Our guarantee states that if we do not find you a potential match in 6 months, you will receive $50 from the $99 in the form of a credit to use towards any future events. If you are contacted by SITC for a potential date(s)within the 6 month period, (whether you accept or decline)no credit will be given.

How many dates will I get?
Our goal is to set you up on as many dates as possible to help you meet that special someone. The number of dates you receive will be based on your match-ability, how specific you are about what you are looking for and the percentage of people we have in the program who are a possible compatible match. We do not guarantee the amount of dates we will be able to find you nor the frequency of the dates. We will set you up on one date at a time. Hopefully the first date goes well and we don’t have to set you up on another!

Do I have to pay any additional money other than the $99 registration fee?
For every date that we find you, that you agree to and we set up, you will be charged an additional $50 service fee. If you reject a potential date you will not charged.

What if I meet someone outside the program?
You are welcome to leave our dating service at any time. Please note: your $99 registration fee is not refundable.

How long does it take to find a potential date?
Our goal is to find someone that you will like and be compatible with and to not set you up with someone randomly. Once we find you a potential date, you will be contacted by your Matchmaker. If we are unable to find you a potential match after 6 months, you have the option of withdrawing from the program with a credit of $50 that can be used towards any future SITC events.

What if I don't like my date?
There are no guarantees as to whether or not you will hit it off with your date. We will do our best to match you up with someone according to the information given and what we learn about you in your interview.

What if I like my date and want to see them again?
We don't want anyone feeling awkward on their date or obligated in any way to give out their phone number. The next day after your date, you will contact Single in the City to let them know whether or not you were interested in your date. If both parties are interested in each other, we will exchange their email and phone number. It is then up to both parties to go out again.

What if I leave the program and want to join back again?
If you request to leave the program, your file will be placed on hold for 3 months. if you do not contact SITC within that time to re-instate your membership, we will remove you from the program. Once you have been removed from the program and would like to rejoin, you will have to re-register and pay the $99 registration fee.

But what if I hit it off with someone on my date and no longer want to set up?
Call us and let us know that you would like to be put on hold. If you are on hold for more than 3 months we will remove you from the program and assume you are in a happy relationship.

Why do you need to take pictures?
Pictures are necessary to reference your file. They are put in your file and are only seen by your matchmaker. We do not show photos to your potential dates, nor will you receive photos of your potential dates.

What if my date isn’t who they say they are?
Keep in mind that this is a Blind Date process. We do our best to collect accurate information about each person. A person gains nothing from lying about who they are, we can only hope for honesty. We meet with all of our dating service participants during the interview process however; we do not perform any kind of background checks. All dating service clients are required to sign a waiver and truth statement.

How is Single in the City’s Dating Service different from other Dating Services?
Most Dating and Introduction services charge anywhere from $1500.00 - $3000.00 for a membership that entitles you to a limited amount of match ups per year. Let's say you hit if off with the first person you meet, you don't get any of that money back. With Single in the City, you pay as you play! With a minimal registration fee of $99 and a $50 service fee for each date you agree to be set up on, you are free to start and stop the Matchmaking program whenever you want. It's very affordable - actually, the most cost effective Dating Service out there. What are you waiting for....join our Dating Service today!

Member Q & A’s

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What should I do if I get a 'Your Username does not match the password' message?

You should make sure that you have entered the information correctly remembering that your password is case sensitive. This means that if your password is 'BBB' (upper case), but you type in 'bbb' (lower case), you will not be able to access the site.

What if I forget my username or password?

If you have forgotten your username and password, please conatct us via our Contact Us form and we will re-send your username or password info.

Forum Q & A’s

How do I access the Forum?

The forum is accessible by all Single in the City members. You can log into the forum by using your Username and Password (the same ones you use to log into the site).

Can people see my personal information if I use the forum?

No, you are identified on the forum by your Nickname as chosen by you upon your registration. If you choose to use the forum, you may send and receive private messages from other members/forum users; however, all communication will be through the forum. You personal information, including your name and email etc. are not viewable, unless you choose to disclose them on the forum yourself. We advise against putting any personal contact information on the forum. For more details about our Forum rules, please review our terms and conditions or Click Here.

What if I dont want to use the forum?

All members have access to the forum if they so choose. If you do not log into the forum at any time, other members/forum users will not be able to contact you via private message.