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Mariastu25 · Joined: 05 Feb 2008 Posts: 1

Whats with men always wanting someone in their 20's. I think I'm pretty hot for 43, stay fit etc... whats the deal? 20 year olds are still going to want kids are you prepared to be a dad again when your 50?

Freedom1975 · Joined: 12 Jul 2008 Posts: 2

I guess you could say the same thing about women. Why do women look for younger mates as well? I believe it is personal choice, also the attraction to one another. The last few dates I have been on were with women, 5-10 years older then me. I personal prefer to date women older then myself, I find them to be more together. They have been through a lot of spoiled relationships, and seem to know more about what they are looking for at this time in life. It is nice to hear that you take care of yourself, and you are single. Maybe we will cross paths at one of these gatherings one day

everlast67 · Joined: 31 Dec 2008 Posts: 1

That's not always true. Maybe with some guys, but for the most part, I believe "Love knows no age".....I was recently involved with a woman 17 years younger than me (41 to 24 ) and believe me when I tell you that anybody that knows me, knows that I am picky and would not look at a woman any younger that 10 years. Well, I fell for her and it didn't matter. I saw her for who she was, not how old she was. It just happened.

sweetskya · Joined: 08 Jan 2009 Posts: 1

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Kristian · Joined: 28 Jan 2009 Posts: 4

No,

In idea maybe ... but not in reality.

There can't be anything possibly in common.

Jimmii · Joined: 05 Dec 2008 Posts: 2

Ronin · Joined: 05 Jul 2009 Posts: 2 Location: Toronto

It is often times (but not always!) the case.

I may be giving you a wrong perspective but from my experience many women prefer to get engaged with more mature and established men. Naturally, this kind of men are mostly older. Now, imagine a man in his early 20s who continuously gets turned down by his peer females for older and wealthier men. Then, imagine the same man 20 years later, well established, having achieved a certain social rank and wisdom. Whom is he most likely to go for? That's right, probably not for a hot looking 43 year old woman.

Another reason may be simple attraction to young bodies, but do you really care for a man who gets swept away by mere gender differences and youth?

Anyways, remember this is not always the case. From my experience most very young girls (unless they are exceptionally mature) don't know life at all and mistake scrap for diamonds. Plus, they may be a source of trouble due to not having their character well established. Older women have a lot of wisdom and are much easier (and pleasant) to deal with. Smart men know that.

Burlgirlhappy · Joined: 06 Jul 2009 Posts: 1

Unfortunately, I've seen it time and time again. I recall an event that my friends and I attended in Hamilton. Speed dating....everyone was divided in groups by age.....Quite clearly all the men that were in the 35 and up category crammed into the section with women in their 20's.....
There literally was no Men in the 35 and up section, leaving many women sitting there stunned. We all walked out. It was so evident that these "older guys" sitting in the 20's section were much older than they were letting on or pretending to be. It's a shame, because many women in their 40's are smart, well read, sexy and very experienced in life...and even pretty!

WaterTiger · Joined: 09 Jul 2009 Posts: 3 Location: North York

Personally, I would shy away from anyone even ten yrs younger than myself. My kids are all grown up, and I am not the slightest bit interested in raising any more, although I do love children. I would rather have someone near my own age and circs., but that's just me.

StateOfMind · Joined: 31 Oct 2009 Posts: 4

You all have a point. This is so interesting that I decided to sign up to this website. I tend to agree with Ronin. There are pluses and minuses on both ends. It depends on your personal choice. It also depends on how each of us connects. It is the things that attract us - what we all look for in a relationship. If you are looking for spontenity, then you'll enjoy and feel attracted to that personality in him/her. If you are looking for knowledge and communication, then you'll be connected in mind and enjoy conversation with each other. If you enjoy sports, you may be attracted to a sport enthusiast. I think (and I hope) if we are mature and take more time for ourselves, then we'll be more likely to know what we want. No one size fits all. It is all custom designs. I guess that's why relationship depends on the "chemistry" or the "glue" - all of the right chemical compositions... Smile

golferguy · Joined: 05 Dec 2009 Posts: 5

I don't want to date a woman in her 20's. We have nothing in common. Women in their 30's & 40's are much sexier , in every way. As for being adDad in my late 40's, I'm ok with that.

picard120 · Joined: 23 Dec 2007 Posts: 14

men prefer women 10yrs older. Some do like women 20yrs younger. These men are Conrad Black, RIM CEO, Bankers. They are loaded with money therefore they want a trophy wife.

maveriiick · Joined: 26 Feb 2010 Posts: 5

I would argue that men like younger women for sexual interludes, but prefer older women for security and companionship. If a man can find an older woman who cares for herself and appears younger than her age, then she is ideal.

There is an understanding that a woman piques around the age of 31 and then declines physically. It is a sad truth that men place a lot of emphasis on appearance, so most men will chose women in this age range usually.

picard120 · Joined: 23 Dec 2007 Posts: 14

A woman beauty isn't just skin deep. A woman appearance strongly relate to her fertility and health.

Mother nature designed humans for specific purpose.